My Thoughts and Hope

Welcome to my blog. I created this blog to enable me to share my thoughts and hope of myself, my children, family and friends. Indeed, I always have things to write about them and I hope they will have the opportunity to read it here. Please enjoy reading..

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Learn to Let Go..


To Let Go

To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can’t do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it’s the realization that I can’t control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but to allow learning from natural consequences.
To let go is to admit powerlessness,
which means the outcome is not in my hands.
To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
it’s to make the most of myself.
To let go is not to care for,
but to care about.
To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their own destinies.
To let go is not to be protective,
it’s to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to criticize, or regulate anyone,
but to try to become what I dream I can do.
To let go is to fear less, and to love more.

—Author Unknown

It is my hope that I will be strong enough to let go...

Monday, March 1, 2010

On my 43th Birthday




Hooray! Am officially 43 years old. Am thankful that I am still breathing, healthy and enjoying life. Time passed by so fast. When I think back of all the things that I have gone throughfor the past years, there is nothing that have made me regret. Not that my life is sailing smoothly, but I guess all the ups and down, sadness, joy, excitement, anxiety, anger, etc are just part and parcel of my life. It add the colors and spice up my life, made it interesting and challenging.

What is so great at this age?

1. I am independent
2. I do not feel guilty if I let people down, why should I anyway?
3. I have no obligation to make people happy except to myself
4. I an not answerable to anybody
5. I pleased myself first and foremost
6. I have no worries of speaking my mind


My hope is that I would live long enough to enjoy the fruit of my hard labor

Happy 43th Birthday to me (2 March 1967)